Marsha, Here is a dream I had on October 13th, 2015. What do you think it means? Jill
I was going to renew my wedding vows and wanted something for my head. For my original wedding I had worn flowers that my father had grown, but that wasn’t an option now. My sister and I went to a shop that sold all kinds of things. I wore my wedding dress to get the full effect. (It had been my mother’s…40’s style with a sweetheart neckline and drop waist.) While my sister was getting a massage, I looked around in the next room. Because of the style of the dress, I tried on a couple of hats, but they didn’t seem right.
A sales lady suggested a veil and I latched on to that idea. She showed me several bolts of lace, but the colors were off. I wanted the veil to match the dress. She ignored that request and immediately started making a veil from one of the darker shades of ivory lace and was trimming it with brown flowers.
When I realized what she was doing, I tried to stop her. “NO”, I said, “I didn’t have a veil before, I should get what I want. It should match the dress….and the flowers shouldn’t be brown!!!”
I call my sister into the room for reinforcement. In the end, I don’t know if I got that veil or not. I did apologize for yelling at the sales lady, though.
Hi Jill. Marsha here!
Lots of people get wedding dreams. They are often about “covenantal relationships” involved between the two people in the dream. Remember it’s all symbolic. Who is the bridegroom in the Bible? Jesus! Who is the bride? The church…us! So let’s look at this dream and see where it takes us.
Symbols:
Wedding vows: covenantal relationship
Head: authority (who has authority/or covering over you)
Flowers: blessings
That my father had grown: God’s provision
Sister: sister in Christ, real sister, other family member
Massage: her flesh catered to
Couple of hats: authority over or covering over
Sales lady: someone trying to “sell” you on something
Veil: filtered; possibly filtered with legalism
Colors were “off”: off-color or not right
Darker shades: things not of God
Brown: worldly humanity issues/ compassion issues
Dress = religious system are in
Veil should match the dress: filter should be clean (white/pure)
Yelling at the sales lady: responding too strongly to someone trying to “sell” you on something
Okay. Now inputting these symbol-meanings into the dream, might look like this:
I was going to renew mycovenantal relationship and wanted to get proper authority or covering over me. Originally, I was adorned in blessings from God, but (that wasn’t an option now) I now need to be actively taking a hand in this myself. My sister in Christ and I went to (a shop) where we can choose to receive different coverings to be under. I (wore my wedding dress) was prepared to receive only what I am already committed to (the original covenantal relationship). (It had been my mother’s…40’s style with a sweetheart neckline and drop waist.) It came to me from my “source” or background. While my sister in Christ was getting (a massage) catered to in the flesh, I looked around in (the next room) a different area. Because of the (style of the dress) religious system I am in I tried on a couple of (hats) coverings, but they didn’t seem right.
(A sales lady[MD1] suggested a veil) someone suggested looking at things filtered and I latched on to that idea. She showed me (several bolts of lace) several beautiful earthly things tied up in knots and twists, but (the colors were off) it was not right and off-color. I wanted the (veil to match the dress) twists and filtered way of looking at things to match the covenantal relationship I am in. She ignored that request and immediately started making a (veil from one of the darker shades of ivory lace) filtered way of viewing things that are lovely but Not of God and was trimming it with (brown flowers)blessings from humanism and compassion.
When I realized what she was doing, I tried to stop her. “NO”, I said, (“I didn’t have a veil before, I should get what I want. It should match the dress….and the flowers shouldn’t be brown!!!”) I want a way of viewing things that matches my covenantal relationship I’m already in and that are not worldly and just out of compassion, but are of God.
I call my sister in Christ into the room for reinforcement. In the end, I don’t know if I got that veil or not. I didapologize for (yelling at the sales lady), reacting inappropriately too strongly though.
Okay, what’s this about?
I’d say this dream might be showing that the dreamer is already a Christian (having gone through a wedding) but is trying to establish a strong spiritual covering over herself. She is looking at things the church, or those claiming to be of the church, are offering her out there and their various bents on things. Some of these teachings are being pushed on her but the dreamer realizes they are not of God, and in fact are just extending compassion and earthly actions. She stops listening to it, probably a little too enthusiastically, and is a little repentant her strong objection may have been inappropriate.
This dream may be speaking of the dreamer’s good discernment in what the dreamer is hearing and responding to. A little tweaking may need to be done in her responses though.
God is ever faithful!
Marsha